Ambition, success, and a want of 'more'- Yeah, that's why I'm doing what I'm doing.
People, relationships and then you with your 'self'- Yeah, that is how it is ultimately going to be. I sometimes feel like playing the role of the person you all want me to be in. Role changes and with it I discover something new I'm capable of. Why not? I want to play the role of that person you will love me for. Who knows tomorrow it becomes a part of my personality? Don't we do exactly the same thing in our lives? Would we be what we are without knowing the opinion of others? Think! Think over this because it is worth a thought.
So what are we? We are what we are when we are with others.No one pretends because what you pretend is what you are capable of acting and when you are capable of projecting what you are not, deeply somewhere you are capable of being one you have within you. Secret of happiness is having the knowledge that every beginning has an end- That nothing is permanent and if it is good, very strangely, the end is going to be depressing.
I would not want something to end which is capable of making me happy and when I desire eternity, I expect consistency in ways that are capable of making me happy. Again, no one thing can remain exactly the same because change is a law of nature and when change gets in, we complain.
You change, I change, technology changes, industrial revolution, more companies, and with it more employment. More job opportunities, and with it higher frequency of changing jobs. You meet some somewhere and then you meet someone else somewhere else. Why just jobs? Why not educational Institutes? Other side to it- One relationship multiplies your relationship network.
You get hooked up with one and you meet his friend. Then through him you meet his relative. There are some you (out of nowhere) relate to and you open your heart out and that is when you are emotionally attached. Human yeah! We are consciously and subconsciously in search of someone who can understand us the way we understand ourselves.
The same process begins- We desire the relationship till eternity, expect consistency and then when change gets in , we complain.
Yeah life is strange but you know it is good. It is all about accepting the law of nature. Once that is done, you learn to live every moment spent in that relationship without being much bothered of the future. You learn to finally spend time with relationships.
Every relationship is a lifetime on its own- what has a beginning has an end. (smiles)
- Written by Vrushali Deshpande
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You can begin to build a listing of what you want in your future, based on what you will learn about from past experience. This evaluation can help move your mind from the past to the future, where hope exists. The only part of life you can control is what you think and do today, and what you make plans for in your future.
You are involved and connected with friends and maybe in a new relationship. As time goes on, you re-evaluate what is important in your life and change your list of what you want your life partner to be. This relationship may extend longer or shorter based on your experience about about relationships.
Really loved the way you color your thoughts. And ofcourse the thoughts themselves. I was just looking for a very old bearing your name (and the last name) and google brought me to your page. Thought that wuldnt be fair to leave without tributes to your wonderful words!
Subhash
thanks :)
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